As the Nigerian economic
condition bites harder, many male citizens are now ready to sell their semen to
couples who need them for procreation, according to new findings.
Many of the respondents to
the vox pop conducted by PM News correspondent said they would not hesitate to
donate their sperm for cash as long as it is not for ritual purposes but to
help couples battling with infertility have children.
Those who said they would
not mind making their sperm available for sale included young as well as
married men.
Donation of sperm and female
eggs to couples and fertility clinics, considered a normal practice in most
parts of the western world, had been a discrete practice in Nigeria due to the
country’s religious and cultural beliefs.
Only four of the 25 male
respondents said they would never engage in such an act with the excuse that it
was sinful.
Some of those favourably
disposed to it said they would donate their semen based on the condition that
they would not be made to know who exactly needs it while others said they were
only concerned with the money that would come from the transaction.
“Why won’t I sell mine if I
see a possible buyer?” asked Chibuike Nnamdi who sells women’s wares at the
Ojuore market, Ota, Ogun state, Southwest Nigeria.
“As long as it is not for
the people to use it for rituals, I am ready oh!,” he said.
A resident of Iyana-Iyesi
area of the state, who gave his name simply as Michael, said once the money is
good, he would sell his semen.
“Most guys these days ease
themselves by masturbating and thus wasting fertile sperm seriously needed by
married families battling infertility.
“Therefore, rather than for
me to continue to waste mine, I am ready to grab any opportunity that comes
with selling it.
“I’m just imagining myself
masturbating and instead of someone to scold me, he pays me. That’s good
enough,” the graduate of Chemistry said.
Mr. Mike, a married man who
has two children, simply asked: “bros, where is it done? Where is the hospital?
Introduce me and we will share the proceeds.”
Another married man resident
in Ikeja who refused to mention his name but said he had four children, said
many male Nigerians including him would sell.
Hear him: “it may sound
absurd at first for someone to approach you to sell your sperm for that purpose
or for you to even realise that you could sell it, but in the end, you will
sell.
“Just imagine how many men
have kids outside wedlock, the one they call love kids, which they never tell
their family but which continue to trouble them all through life.
“Imagine again, how much you
would spend just to have extra-marital affairs with a lady or when you are
dating her. In this case, rather than for you to be paying, someone is paying
you.”
Mr. Sumanu Giwa, a 40-year
old businessman in the Lagos Island area of Lagos, said he would sell on the
condition that he was not made to know the family that needs the sperm.
“If I have the opportunity
to sell to a hospital, I will gladly do it and make some money which would
assist my business,” he said.
Sumanu’s friend, Monday,
even gave an insight into another form of sperm donation.
According to him, some men
battling with infertility and have no money to buy sperm from fertility clinic
now pay young healthy and fertile men to sleep with and impregnate their wives.
“There would be an
understanding between the man and his wife. Then they would travel very far and
look for a man very distant from them who would sleep with the woman for pay,”
he said.
He said one of his friends
living in Asaba, Delta state now has a child from such mutual and confidential
arrangement.
A resident of Agege, Mr. P.
A. Ayo, said he would rather see selling of sperm to couples in need as
assistance to them.
“Have you not heard of
situations where the woman knows that the man cannot impregnate her and she
then gets someone outside who dates her and continues to pump children into her
womb only for her to bring the pregnancy home to a very excited husband?
“We have such women all over
Lagos in case you have not found out. So it is maturity on the part of a man to
agree to getting his wife pregnant with another man’s semen,” he explained.
A number of fertility
clinics engaging in the purchase of sperm from men have sprung up in Lagos over
the years, many of them are located on the Island area of the state.
These clinics, which shroud
their operations in secrecy, have sperm banks where they freeze the sperms and
keep them alive since it is scientifically proven that the lifespan of sperm is
between 48 and 72 hours.
Though they refuse to confirm
that they buy sperm, they rather claim that men who give out their sperms are
simply donors who get a token as appreciation and encouragement.
P.M.NEWS learnt that this
‘token’ is between N250,000 and N500,000 per release depending on how buoyant
the clinic is, but these same clinics make millions of naira selling it to
couples.
“Before we allow such
sperms, we first carry out all the necessary tests including
sexually-transmitted diseases, blood group and genotype.
“Then we extract the sperm
by majorly making the person masturbate after which it is frozen,” a staff of
one of the clinics told P.M.NEWS, adding that to ensure success, they make sure
the woman is fertile enough to carry the pregnancy.
“For women whose eggs are
deformed or who have problems, we put them in the right state before
fertilisation. We could even get eggs from female donors and implant them in
the wombs of these women.
“I believe in miracles, but
sometimes when you hear that a woman got pregnant after so many years of
marriage, it may be as a result of sperm or egg donation,” the staff disclosed,
adding that the clinics continue to monitor and care for the woman throughout
her pregnancy period as well as keep the identities of the donors away from
couples.
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