A pair of Pakistani women
have made history as the first Muslim lesbian couple to get married in the UK.
Rehana Kausar, 34, and Sobia
Kamar, 29, made history when they tied the knot in a register office civil
ceremony, then immediately applied for political asylum after they were wed,
claiming their lives would be in danger if they returned to their native country.
Watched by their solicitors
and two friends, the pair wore traditional white bridal dresses when they were
married in Leeds, West Yorkshire
The pair, from the Lahore
and Mirpur regions of Pakistan, said they had received death threats from
opponents in Pakistan - where homosexual acts are illegal and considered
against Islam.
And since news of their
wedding earlier this month spread, the pair claimed they had even received
death threats from the UK.
Before the service, even the
registrar advised the couple to give serious thought to their decision to marry
because of some Muslims’ views on homosexuality.
Kausar said: 'This country
allows us rights and it’s a very personal decision that we have taken.
'It’s no one’s business as
to what we do with our personal lives.
'The problem with Pakistan
is that everyone believes he is in charge of other people’s lives and can best
decide about the morals of others but that’s not the right approach and we are
in this state because of our clergy who have hijacked our society which was
once a tolerant society and respected individuals’ freedoms.'
Ms Kamar, speaking to the
Birmingham Mail, described her partner as her 'soul mate' and said the two
women were deeply in love.
Pakistani law does not
recognise same-sex marriages and there are no laws to stop discrimination.
Both women met in Birmingham
as students when they moved to Pakistan from the UK.
They later started living
together as a couple in South Yorkshire, where they spent a year before
deciding to wed.
A relative said: 'The couple
did not have an Islamic marriage ceremony, known as a nikah, as they could not
find an Imam to conduct what would have been a controversial ceremony.
'They have been very brave
throughout as our religion does not condone homosexuality.
'The couple have had their
lives threatened both here and in Pakistan and there is no way they could ever
return there.'
Many scholars of Sharia -
Islamic - law view homosexuality as a punishable offence.
There is no specific
punishment prescribed but in extreme cases gay people can be sentenced to
death.
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