Many men are never taught
how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the
ability to attract a woman. Here are 15 tips to help make sure you aren’t
making mistakes with the women you’d like to attract:
1. You should talk about
“emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions.
These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.
2. Women want a guy who is
not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation.
Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.
3. Pay attention to the
non-verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her,
accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any
way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.
4. Remember this motto “Fun
not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t
concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most
excitement and enjoyment.
5. Tease women. One of the
easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to
tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating…
what worked on the playground is effective all over again.
6. Get intimate with her.
Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a
personal, intimate level.
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7. Use things like “cold
reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her
what you observe about her.
8. Avoid complimenting a
woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you
are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her.
Which will have the opposite effect.
9. If you want to know how
to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many
“interview” style questions. Instead
state your opinion about things.
10. Remember: Statements
over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look
like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her
and express your personality.
11. Don’t hide your
identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.
12. Never compliment her on
her eyes, looks, or body.
13. Say something that lets
her know that you view her in a “sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of
winding up in the “friend zone”.
14. Use conversation “games”
to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or
dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.
15. Don’t give away your
hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s
interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks
you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.
The best way to think about
how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual
conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be
difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what
turns them off. Follow the list above and you’ll do just fine.
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