Much as everyone knows who Peter Okoye's baby mama is, she's always been laid back and conservative. The only time we get to hear about her is when she's popping the babies. This time round, she's decided to open up and this she did in an exclusive interview with National Newspaper. Exerts below:
I love Peter because he was never intimidated. When I met him, he was just trying to build himself and I was very proud of him. I have a lot of respect for him, his talent and I saw that he had a vision. Peter doesn’t get intimidated by anything; in fact, he supports and encourages me all the time. I think he’s happy that he doesn’t have to do everything; he can rely on me that I will take care of our kids.
I love Peter because he was never intimidated. When I met him, he was just trying to build himself and I was very proud of him. I have a lot of respect for him, his talent and I saw that he had a vision. Peter doesn’t get intimidated by anything; in fact, he supports and encourages me all the time. I think he’s happy that he doesn’t have to do everything; he can rely on me that I will take care of our kids.
What actually attracted you
to Peter?
Peter has drive. He has vision and pursues
it. He doesn’t let anybody distract him from that vision and that I saw in him,
which a lot of people didn’t see. Some people were like, ‘what are you doing
with a musician? Are you crazy?’ but I saw something very different and unique
about Peter.
I saw the goals he set for himself and how
he accomplished those goals step by step, and I was very impressed with that. I
also saw that he wasn’t a selfish person.He was a generous person from the
outset, even though he didn’t have much then, he was always generous. I like a
man who is generous, not for the financial reason, but also to see how he can
add value to other people’s lives; that is very important to me. He is also a
good listener; he listens to people, listens to me…those are the things that
attracted me to Peter. He’s an amazing guy
How romantic is he?
Peter is very romantic as well. He does things
that an average Nigerian guy will not do. There was a Valentine’s Day that he
came to my house with a guitar and played some love ballads for me. That was
really cool and I loved it. Those are the little things that he does that
really touched me.
How challenging is it to
date a celebrity?
Having a relationship with a musician is one
of the most challenging situations to be in. There are things you have to deal
with; a lot of women, intruders, fans. You have to appreciate and respect the
fans, but you also have some of them who are thinking of other things. I think
it’s one of the most challenging relationships one can have.
You won’t even spend much time with your
partner because he’s on the road most of the time doing shows and concerts;
even during holidays like Christmas, Easter and New Year, they are not around.
So I’m not really enjoying that part. But I thank God that we are managing it very
well.
What advice do you have for
Nigerian ladies who put all their financial burdens on their partner?
I think that is the core of our problems in
this society because we put so much pressure on the man to take care of us, pay
our bills…we put so much pressure on them, and that tempts some men to start
doing some shady businesses. Women put too much pressure on men in this part of
the world.
Also, a lot of women are greedy and lazy,
so they just want to get married and stop working. It doesn’t mean women should
go all out and work for the men, but somehow, you just have to make things easy
for him. I see a lot of young ladies out there; it is not as if there are no
jobs for them to do, the problem is that they don’t want to do certain type of
jobs, they want everything to come easy.
I started the very hard way, I didn’t start
the easy way like people assume. I had to work myself up there because I had a
vision. A lot of young ladies in Nigeria see people driving fancy cars;
carrying fancy bags and assume that a man is supposed to do all of that for
them, so they sell themselves in order to get it. But you don’t have to do
that. You can always find ways to make money legally.
Culled from the National
Newspaper
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